Who are Venus and Pluto?
In Greek Mythology Aphrodite - whose Roman name is Venus - is the
goddess who symbolizes the openness and responsiveness. Open ourselves to
others, to receive them and to accept them, that is what we usually call love.
Venus in our natal chart is the energy that speaks to us about how we
complement with others and how we are open to ourselves.
Pluto was the name that was given to Hades, the god of the underworld.
Brother of Zeus and Poseidon, in the partition of the universe Pluto received
the invisible world, the world of the occult and also the kingdom of the dead.
In the astrological symbolism Pluto is the strongest energy of the system, the
energy that carries out the processes of deepest transformation, which carries
us beyond our own limits. It also identifies with the "Death", as a
generator of those changes, generally not chosen, we die to what we were to be
reborn as different beings.
When the planet of love and receptivity (Venus) is in contact with the
god of the underworld (Pluto) in a natal chart means, in the first place, that
none of the two planets is "free", that these energies are together
in the life of these people, and in any situation in which is involved one of
them the other will be involved too. As Pluto is one of the trans-personality
planets - that is that goes beyond the personality - we will have to wait for
the transformation that appears in our life from the outside, through love and
intimate relationships. When the person connects with the energy of love, Pluto
emerges from the depths of his psyche to connect mercilessly with the
transform. Why mercilessly? Because we usually want that nothing changes
and we don't want to transform ourselves.
The myth tells us that when Hades fell in love with the maiden Kore
(Persephone), Demeter's daughter, did not hesitate to come out from the depths
of the earth and kidnapped her, carrying her to his kingdom to make her his
wife. This act had been implicitly authorized by Zeus (Jupiter), symbol of the
evolutionary force, i.e. that this fall to the underground world brings us an
evolutionary learning. In addition to that, Pluto means "rich",
another track important to think that there is something very valuable in the
experience that comes from the hand of Pluto.
As Hades is the ruler of a world where the sunlight doesn't reach - that
we associate with the consciousness - this is an energy that operates from the
unconscious. However, it takes contact with it will allow us to bring light to
some of these hidden content and to expand our consciousness. After fall to the
underground world we know more about ourselves.
A basic
script: Beauty and the Beast
In the
life of a person with this aspect in his natal chart, the depth, the emotional
extremism and the sexual intensity of his relationships ensures a compulsive
fall to the dark world. This can be said as: high doses of jealousy, - which,
in other words, means possessiveness and desires of control of the other-,
subjugation and loss of your own will. Your favorite slogan could be:
"until death do us part". And in some extreme cases, this can become
literal.
There may also be antecedent of this game of poles in the family
history: a powerful father, a mother who was subjugated, or some other variant
that makes this indent as already known. Therefore, for these people are not
very easy to think in free and detached relations, in principle because of
someone with the polarity Venus/Pluto, this kind of relationships are not
attractive. The desire is to devour the other taking the risk of being
devoured.
The
attraction of the opposite poles
At the
base of the hermetic philosophy we find the law of polarity: everything is
double, everything has two poles. The polarity is played on this aspect can be
summarized as follows: Power - submission, however, both poles belong to the
same person, since he/she has Venus in contact with Pluto in his natal chart.
If you identify with one of these poles and plans to the other, which shows you
the outside is not more than a mirror of your own energy.
The key point is no
doubt comes to understand this and the first step would be to ask: why is this
happening to me?
As is the case with every pair of opposites the person elected,
according the general balance of energies in his letter, placed in one of these
poles and you screened the other pole to the companion of turn.
However,
although it appears to be obvious, but it is not easy to be discovered and
generally the person feels irresistibly drawn toward one of the poles, thinking
that has nothing to do with the other.
This is the beginning of a journey of
transformation whose ultimate goal is to integrate to the fullest extent
possible this pair of opposites and thus achieve an expansion of consciousness
from go disarming those projections.
This expansion will be the obvious result
to recover for itself something that had projected in the outside.
Carl Jung said that the civilized man dragging behind the tail of a
saurio.
This "saurio queue" is the most archaic part of our psyche,
our most primitive; there are crouching all the emotions that we have
suppressed during our first years of life, with relation to others or to
ourselves and that, is being considered unacceptable by our environment, hid in
the farthest place possible of our consciousness.
We are talking about the
anger, envy, jealousy, greed, lust, all emotions that culture labeled "the
ugly, dirty and bad", but they are very far from being the only reason. As
we already said there is something valuable in this experience only to discover
it can be difficult and often painful.
To Be
Venus
Here, the
energy of Venus is not satisfied opening to another, nor did he reach with
please - obviously because neither reaches who plays the role of Pluto - but
that is submitted to the power of the other.
Imagine a hyphen basis. In a belief the person Venus/Pluto will feel
fascinated by someone, which are then you will discover as a "freak",
and it will be very difficult to realize that this has to do with it. Venus is
also related with the ability to accept and here it is necessary to accept the
dark side of another, and of course also the own, and love him in spite of
everything.
Other people can leave a little side the dark aspects of their
partners, but which has a contact Venus/Pluto, precisely will be attracted by
these dark aspects. If the other is presented as someone who could get to
engulf him what makes that it is in this link? What is it that makes it
attractive? Precisely that darkness that does no more than to reveal its own
dark interior side.
It is important here to clarify that for a projection to
take hold, the other pole will be projected on someone who actually has to do
with that energy and that will also be ready to do its part in the
choreography.
But this is a problem of another, with which the person
Venus/Pluto should not be confused: we cannot change to another, we only have
to worry about to realize the part that corresponds to us. This does not mean
that the other is not what it is.
For a projection work we need to hang in the
hanger adequate.
What it teaches us this aspect is that the only force able to defeat
Pluto is Venus, but of course, not by force, not struggling with it but
accepting and loving him, but without losing sight, without undergoing.
If I
accept the other as he/she is, just the power struggles. Pluto puts Venus in
the urgent situation of being truly receptive, to love seriously. Pluto is a
developer of Venus.
You can also accept that the link is not for her, and
releasing, let it go. "As it is inside, it is out", another basic
principle, means that the other makes us of mirror, which is there to show us
something that actually belongs to us.
But let us look at some of the features of this script base. There will
be, typically, a permanent feeling of dissatisfaction in the affective links,
nothing is adequate, nothing hits you. Venus/Pluto has a thirst for the
absolute projected in the couple, which - there should be no illusions -- it is
impossible to achieve.
That is why the person feels that love, that happiness
is not for her/him, that each time you love conflicts begin, the struggles and
sorrow appears. If this aspect is not working, in the long run some people can
lead to the solitude.
If it is identified with the pole of Venus will be submitted to another,
that the monitor and exercise a power with a tendency to be absolute.
Of course
that this is not the only face of Pluto or much less, but whether it was
planned to an energy that is own, it appears in its forms poorer, therefore,
while the person does not understand that this is his own energy, he will come from
"outside", embody in your partner, showing its worst aspects.
If the person with Venus/Pluto sees itself supplemented by something
that owns it and not left at liberty, this can generate extreme sensations:
"I am united to something that rejection; but that I cannot leave".
So it is understandable that the person is frightened to love: each time that
falls in love, Pluto slips into his life, and the more you feel the person
identified with the bright and friendly pole of Venus, dark will appear more
powerful.
The first step to overcome this aspect is to begin to recognize your own
energy of power in the reflection of the power of the other. To the extent that
the person begins to realize that something of this quality belongs to you, to
the extent that begins to take charge of its part in this script, the onslaught
of outside will lose strength. If I can bring to light my darker side it might
appear in my context, in my world, a loving energy capable of understanding,
and there I will be starting to reverse the polarity.
To Be
Pluto
The other
option involves that the person is identified with Pluto. In such a case, there
will be no one that satisfies emotionally.
Will be entrenched in a position
ultra-defensive. I have met people who were in this position and that they
confessed that never, ever had fallen in love. That did not understand what I
wanted to say that. That is to say, never to be identified with their own
vulnerability, with their own responsiveness, with their own capacity for
delivery.
When a person with this aspect is in that situation is closed to itself
and toughened and being defensive. They have always had the power in their
links. The fragility of another, its weakness, its delivery, attracts you,
because she feels that being what it is not that the complete but, as there is
no challenge, ends causing irritation and boredom. However, she is not prepared
to let him go, because it is precisely in those situations where you can play
their role.
The result, as in the previous case, it is a link to be highly
unsatisfactory for both parties. These are the mixtures.
These people have to do the work of connecting with what they without
doubt would call "weakness"; they have to fall in love and surrender.
Once they have done so they no longer feel attracted by what they do not
believe that they have and the experience of love can take another course.
The alchemy
The task of the person Venus/Pluto is to discover the attractiveness of
the links of parity in where the power to circulate from one to another, i.e.
in which power is shared, but it will be a long road and it will not be
possible without having gone through the two poles.
The polarization involves identified blindly with the pole of the
impotence or with the pole of the omnipotence. The experience of moving from
one pole to the other allows you to connect with the power, an intermediate
point in which each one has power but not all power.
Pound the zodiacal sign associated to love and marriage, whose Regent is
precisely Venus, has as a symbol a balance with its two dishes in balance and
in each one of those dishes is each one of the members of the couple.
An
asymmetric link is not a true "marriage", at least that is what the
astrological symbolism teaches us and that is the learning that proposes this
aspect in the natal chart of a person.
In any link there will always be something of projection, but if there
is no discomfort, might not have so much need to work on that.
However, if
there is conflict, discomfort, if the other plays a role that makes you feel
bad, there is something to correct and, with all safety, something of ourselves
to look.
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